Finding comfort in who I am

Women are so cruel to themselves, aren't we?  We're constantly asking how outfits make us look, comparing our weight to strangers:

"Honey, am I as fat as her?" 
"Honey, do you ever wish I looked like that?"

I (hope) I'm not the ONLY one who does it.

I got to thinking today that NO ONE is more critical of me than ME.  No one critiques my outfits, fat rolls, big butt, or double chins...so why do I?  I am so obsessed concerned about being someone, something that I'm simply NOT...so why do I stress out so much everyday when I make that realization?  I will never be Mrs. X...I'm me.  I will never look like Mrs. X, I'll always look like me (unless I was really crazy and had all kinds of plastic surgery). 

I need to find comfort in just being ME.  Not my sister, not my friend, not that hoochie mama on the park with 5 kids and a size 2 waist...ME.  And (to be honest), I really like me, despite my shape or size...and I have the ability to change the aspects of ME that I want to.

After all...a Rhino, no matter how hard she tries, will never be a unicorn.  She should aim to be the BEST, most healthy rhino she can be, and that's all.
  Have a SUPER weekend!
Keep healthy, keep safe and keep going!
Have an awesome day!
♥Fit~NOW~Girl♥

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